Showing posts with label wonders. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wonders. Show all posts
When life gives you shit, shit on life.
I think you get my point here. We've all had those days where everything goes wrong - and everything turns to shit. *inserts poop emoji here* Life can't always be good. Trust me, I know. I've been having a couple of shitty months. The kind of months were everything isn't going the way you want it to go. You've planned everything in a certain way and nothing is happening according to plan. I guess I shouldn't be planning so much. To be honest, I can't help it. I'm a bit of a control freak. I like to be in control and organize everything. I'm never bored. I always have a lot of things to do. This month has been pretty hectic. Not everything was good but it wasn't all bad either. My future has never been so uncertain. I don't even have a flat to live in... Something went wrong with my new flat. After all, I won't be moving into a new flat but I still have to move out of my current flat. So it has been quite tricky... To be honest, things are quite messy. Actually, as you're reading this, I should be done with all that jazz. Who know where I'll be. Life has been quite unpredictable... To say the least. And, my control freak brain is freaking out.
One thing, I've learnt so far is that when things get tough, you're left on your own. In the end, you only have yourself. Yourself to blame and yourself to move on. But I'll get back to that part, in few days.
I'm only human. You're only humans. We are only humans. Summer is here. Things are changing. The sales are on and I don't even feel like shopping. Can you believe it? I simply feel sad. It's not the kind of sadness that can be cured by shopping therapy. The only thing that can fix this is good news. Maybe, the rainbow is just around the corner. Maybe, it's all I need. A little ray of sunshine. I hope you're doing better than I'm. In case, you're not feeling well, here is a few words :
I think you get my point here. We've all had those days where everything goes wrong - and everything turns to shit. *inserts poop emoji here* Life can't always be good. Trust me, I know. I've been having a couple of shitty months. The kind of months were everything isn't going the way you want it to go. You've planned everything in a certain way and nothing is happening according to plan. I guess I shouldn't be planning so much. To be honest, I can't help it. I'm a bit of a control freak. I like to be in control and organize everything. I'm never bored. I always have a lot of things to do. This month has been pretty hectic. Not everything was good but it wasn't all bad either. My future has never been so uncertain. I don't even have a flat to live in... Something went wrong with my new flat. After all, I won't be moving into a new flat but I still have to move out of my current flat. So it has been quite tricky... To be honest, things are quite messy. Actually, as you're reading this, I should be done with all that jazz. Who know where I'll be. Life has been quite unpredictable... To say the least. And, my control freak brain is freaking out.
One thing, I've learnt so far is that when things get tough, you're left on your own. In the end, you only have yourself. Yourself to blame and yourself to move on. But I'll get back to that part, in few days.
I'm only human. You're only humans. We are only humans. Summer is here. Things are changing. The sales are on and I don't even feel like shopping. Can you believe it? I simply feel sad. It's not the kind of sadness that can be cured by shopping therapy. The only thing that can fix this is good news. Maybe, the rainbow is just around the corner. Maybe, it's all I need. A little ray of sunshine. I hope you're doing better than I'm. In case, you're not feeling well, here is a few words :
Things will get better. You're stronger and smarter than you think. You can do it. Don't let a bad day get the best of you.
Hello there, lovely people! In this blog, we will explore the notion of dreams. If you're interested, thank you for reading and if not, I will see you next time! Let's get right into it, shall we?
So, I was raised with the acknowledgment that dreams were useless. My mom would constantly remind me that dreams were a waste of time. Dreams didn't came true. They were never attainable and that was why they were called dreams. I should always settle for what was at reach. I should never want more than what I already had. Basically, she would always advise me to play it safe.
Merriam Webster's dictionary defines DREAM as : ' a strongly desired goal or purpose. '
― A BAD OR A GOOD THING?
I don't necessary think that dreams are a bad things. I think kids need dreams. They need to believe that they can do anything. I mean, if a kid is already bitter about life, how is that same kid going to feel when he gets older?
Sometimes, dreams do come true. Certainly, it only happens once in a blue moon... but should you give up on your dreams? They could become true BUT it doesn't happen over night. It takes a lot of time, luck and efforts. Not everyone gets the chance to live their dreams. Otherwise, it would be too easy.
Sadly, there is a dark side to any dream chasing. The kind of dreamer who doesn't get his/her wish. It can be soul crushing. I guess the important thing is to set a goal (a dream goal) that is attainable. Something you know you could reach for. Stars are just as good as the sky - if you know what I mean!
― AM I A DREAMER?
I honestly don't know. I guess I'm both an Idealistic person and a realistic person. At times, I can be too realistic. I will see a bad situation for what it is and deal with it. On the other hand, I think all things have a positive side even when they dont. One thing is sure I'm a firm believer of Karmic Retribution. I believe that you get what you deserve. In other words, what comes around goes around!
What about you? Are you a dreamer ? Let me know in the comments below ♥ I can't wait to hear what you have to say! x
Bonjour mes lovelies! Dans cet article, nous allons parler des rêves... Merci pour votre lecture et si vous n'êtes pas intéressé(e)s, on se retrouve dans un autre article! Allons donc droit au but, voulez-vous?
J'ai été élevé avec l'idée que les rêves n'avaient pas d'intérêt. Ma mère me rappelait constamment que les rêves étaient une perte de temps. Les rêves ne se réalisaient jamais. Ils n'étaient jamais atteignables. C'était d'ailleurs pour cela qu'on les appelait des rêves. Je devais toujours me contenter de ce qui était à porter de mains. Je ne devais jamais espérer plus que ce que j'avais déjà . En résumé, elle me conseillerait toujours de miser sur la sûreté.
Le dictionnaire Larousse définit un RÊVE comme une Représentation, plus ou moins idéale ou chimérique, de ce qu'on veut réaliser, de ce qu'on désire. ― UNE BONNE OU UNE MAUVAISE CHOSE?
Je ne pense pas que les rêves soient forcément une mauvaise chose. Les enfants en ont besoin. Si un enfant est déjà amer au sujet de la vie, comment fera-t-il lorsqu'il sera plus âgé? Parfois les rêves se réalisent. Certes, cela n'arrive qu'une fois tous les dix siècles... Mais est-ce véritablement une raison d'abandonner tes rêves? Ils peuvent se réaliser mais cela n'arrivera pas du jour au lendemain. Cela prend beaucoup de temps, de chance et d'efforts. Nous n'avons pas tous la chance de réaliser nos rêves... Sinon, ce serait trop facile, voyons!
Malheureusement, il y a un mauvais côté au fait d'être un rêveur. Le genre de rêveur dont le rêve ne se réalise pas, peut-être dévasté. J'imagine que comme dans beaucoup de choses, il faut agir de façon mesurée. Il faut se donner un but (ou un rêve) qui soit atteignable. Quelque chose de réaliste. Et surtout, il ne faut pas oublier que parfois les étoiles sont bien mieux que le ciel!
― SUIS JE UNE RÊVEUSE?
Honnêtement, je n'en sais rien. Je suis tout autant réaliste qu'idéaliste. À certains moments, je suis peut-être trop réaliste. Je vais observer une situation pénible et faire avec. Cependant, d'un autre côté, je crois que chaque mauvaise chose a un côté positif. Une chose est certaine, je crois très fort au Karma. On récolte ce que l'on sème.
Et vous qu'en pensez-vous ? Êtes vous un rêveur ? Expliquez moi tout dans les commentaires :) J'ai hâte de lire vos avis ♥
So, I was raised with the acknowledgment that dreams were useless. My mom would constantly remind me that dreams were a waste of time. Dreams didn't came true. They were never attainable and that was why they were called dreams. I should always settle for what was at reach. I should never want more than what I already had. Basically, she would always advise me to play it safe.
― A BAD OR A GOOD THING?
I don't necessary think that dreams are a bad things. I think kids need dreams. They need to believe that they can do anything. I mean, if a kid is already bitter about life, how is that same kid going to feel when he gets older?
Sometimes, dreams do come true. Certainly, it only happens once in a blue moon... but should you give up on your dreams? They could become true BUT it doesn't happen over night. It takes a lot of time, luck and efforts. Not everyone gets the chance to live their dreams. Otherwise, it would be too easy.
Sadly, there is a dark side to any dream chasing. The kind of dreamer who doesn't get his/her wish. It can be soul crushing. I guess the important thing is to set a goal (a dream goal) that is attainable. Something you know you could reach for. Stars are just as good as the sky - if you know what I mean!
― AM I A DREAMER?
I honestly don't know. I guess I'm both an Idealistic person and a realistic person. At times, I can be too realistic. I will see a bad situation for what it is and deal with it. On the other hand, I think all things have a positive side even when they dont. One thing is sure I'm a firm believer of Karmic Retribution. I believe that you get what you deserve. In other words, what comes around goes around!
What about you? Are you a dreamer ? Let me know in the comments below ♥ I can't wait to hear what you have to say! x
Bonjour mes lovelies! Dans cet article, nous allons parler des rêves... Merci pour votre lecture et si vous n'êtes pas intéressé(e)s, on se retrouve dans un autre article! Allons donc droit au but, voulez-vous?
J'ai été élevé avec l'idée que les rêves n'avaient pas d'intérêt. Ma mère me rappelait constamment que les rêves étaient une perte de temps. Les rêves ne se réalisaient jamais. Ils n'étaient jamais atteignables. C'était d'ailleurs pour cela qu'on les appelait des rêves. Je devais toujours me contenter de ce qui était à porter de mains. Je ne devais jamais espérer plus que ce que j'avais déjà . En résumé, elle me conseillerait toujours de miser sur la sûreté.
Je ne pense pas que les rêves soient forcément une mauvaise chose. Les enfants en ont besoin. Si un enfant est déjà amer au sujet de la vie, comment fera-t-il lorsqu'il sera plus âgé? Parfois les rêves se réalisent. Certes, cela n'arrive qu'une fois tous les dix siècles... Mais est-ce véritablement une raison d'abandonner tes rêves? Ils peuvent se réaliser mais cela n'arrivera pas du jour au lendemain. Cela prend beaucoup de temps, de chance et d'efforts. Nous n'avons pas tous la chance de réaliser nos rêves... Sinon, ce serait trop facile, voyons!
Malheureusement, il y a un mauvais côté au fait d'être un rêveur. Le genre de rêveur dont le rêve ne se réalise pas, peut-être dévasté. J'imagine que comme dans beaucoup de choses, il faut agir de façon mesurée. Il faut se donner un but (ou un rêve) qui soit atteignable. Quelque chose de réaliste. Et surtout, il ne faut pas oublier que parfois les étoiles sont bien mieux que le ciel!
― SUIS JE UNE RÊVEUSE?
Honnêtement, je n'en sais rien. Je suis tout autant réaliste qu'idéaliste. À certains moments, je suis peut-être trop réaliste. Je vais observer une situation pénible et faire avec. Cependant, d'un autre côté, je crois que chaque mauvaise chose a un côté positif. Une chose est certaine, je crois très fort au Karma. On récolte ce que l'on sème.
Et vous qu'en pensez-vous ? Êtes vous un rêveur ? Expliquez moi tout dans les commentaires :) J'ai hâte de lire vos avis ♥
Heey my lovelies! I think it's about time we catch up. Here’s what’s new with me lately…
1. I had an amazing (3rd of June) weekend. I probably ate way too much...
2. Everything is changing at the moment. Everything is moving towards the future. I'll be moving out of my current flat soon. It's equally scary and exciting.
3. I will be going to London very soon. I can't wait to be reunited with one of my favourite city ♥
4. I'm so thankful for my granny. My grandmother is my rock. She is absolute golden. She is the best thing ever. I don't know what I would do without her.
5. Blogging, I love writing and blogging in general. It's one of best thing. I couldn't thank you enough for reading me ♥ It means the world to know someone is taking the time to read what I have to say!
What has everyone been up to ? Thanks for reading ♥
Coucou les lovelies! Je pense qu'il est temps de faire une petite mise au point. Voilà sans plus attendre des nouvelles de ma part ou plus précisément cinq choses positives.
1. J'ai passé un super weekend au début du mois. J'ai surement trop mangé...
2. Tout change et se bouscule autour de moi. Le futur me tends les bras! Je vais bientôt déménagé dans un nouvel appartement... C'est à la fois effrayant et excitant!
3. Je pars bientôt pour Londres. J'ai hâte de retrouver une de mes villes préférées. ♥
4. Je suis tellement reconnaissante d'avoir ma grand-mère. Elle est tout mon soutien et bien plus que ma famille. C'est la meilleure. Je ne sais pas ce que je ferais sans elle.
5. Écrire mon blog, j'adore écrire et blogguer en règle générale. C'est l'une des choses que je ne regrette pas du tout bien au contraire. Je vous remercie pour votre soutien et de continuer à me lire. Ça me fait tellement plaisir de savoir que vous êtes là ♥
Merci pour votre lecture, mes amours. Et vous, quoi de neuf? ♥
Coping. verb (used without object), coped, coping.
to face and deal with responsibilities, problems, or difficulties, especially successfully or in a calm or adequate manner:
to face and deal with responsibilities, problems, or difficulties, especially successfully or in a calm or adequate manner:
I'm here today to speak about 'coping'. I'm not an expert - nor will I ever be. However, I have gathered a few tricks along the way. I don't know if you're like me or not, but I'm a chronic worrier and over-thinker. I can't help but analyze and process every little things. I pay too much attention to details. So much that I can often detect and predict the slightest change. So how do YOU cope ?
≈ DON'T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF.
We all have expectations. I know, I tend to have high expectations about my life and myself. Nonetheless, disappointment is part of life. You will be disappointed. You will disappoint others. Sometimes you won't do as well as you thought you could do. Sometimes, things won't go the way you want them to go. Other times, you will do your best and still don't succeed at first. And you know what? That's okay. It's okay not to get it the first time. It's okay if you didn't do what you thought you would do. It's okay if you said something stupid. Everything is going to be okay. Life goes on. Things will change. You can't control everything. You can't be perfect either. You're good enough. As long as you give it your best shot, you'll be alright.
≈ (AT LEAST) ONE GOOD THING EACH DAY/WEEK.
Focusing on the good instead of everything that went wrong can be good. You're having a bad day, right? Then, think again and find one thing - even the tiniest details of your day - that can bring you this silly warm feeling of joy. It can be the hug you got before leaving, your morning tea/coffee, the compliment you got earlier, the weather, one smile, one kind word, a possibility, one simple idea or comforting thought ... Anything really. And then, you got it. Everything isn't that bad after all, is it?
≈ STAY BUSY.
Or you could do the oldest trick in the book : KEEP BUSY. The best way to stop thinking is to divert your attention on something else. You can get anything done from baking, cleaning, reading, talking to those relatives you haven't talked to in years, working on a new project... Pretty much anything can be a distraction. My personnal favourite is baking. Another thing I do is focus my whole atttention on someone else.
≈ FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT.
I've seen it quite often, that ease to do it. They fake it until they make it. They pretend they 'got this'. They could spend hours convincing you that they know what they are doing and that they don't have a care in the world. Maybe they are trying to convince themselves in the process. However, they have a point. You can start by pretending you can do it because YOU CAN OVERCOME IT. All you have to do is realize that you can do anything you want to do. We all know, confidence is key.
≈ SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE.
To conclude, life is way too short to be spent with people who put you down. I'm quite independent but I'm here for my friends. I may not have a lot of friends but the ones I have are absolute golden. As you grow up, you will understand that friendship can't be measured. My friends are the best thing that ever happened to me. They are the reason I smile and do not feel alone everyday. I don't like fake people and fake promises. I hate empty plans and empty words. I dismiss them. I only believe in actions. I don't pay attention to words. I only look at what people do. And when someone makes you feel insecure and unsure whether they are your friend or not, they probably are not your friend. Someone that want to be there for you will make an effort. You will be able to count on them. You won't have to watch everything you do or say. They won't judge you. They will support you and be able to tell you things. They will understand you. They will support you anyway. You will both make efforts and care for each other. No relationship should be one-sided. It's depressing and frustrating. It only creates more problems and that should not be associated with a friend. We all need to support each other. ' a worry shared is a worry halved '
Coping. Ensemble des efforts cognitifs et comportementaux destinés à maitriser, réduire ou tolérer des demandes spécifiques internes et/ou externes, vécues par le sujet comme menaçant, épuisant ou dépassant ses ressources (R. Lazarus et R. Saunier, 1978).
Je suis ici aujourd'hui pour parler du "coping". Je ne suis pas une experte et je ne le serais probablement jamais. Cependant, j'ai rassemblé dans cet article quelques conseils que j'ai pu recueillir tout au long de ma maigre existence. J'ignore si vous êtes comme moi ou non mais je suis une inquiète qui a toujours tendance à trop réfléchir. Je ne peux jamais m'empêcher d'observer ou d'analyser le monde qui m'entoure. J'attache sûrement trop d'attention aux détails. Tellement trop qu'il m'arrive souvent de sentir et pressentir le moindre changement. Et vous comment faîtes vous pour faire face ?
≈ NE SOYEZ PAS TROP DIFFICILE AVEC VOUS-MÊME.
Nous avons tous des attentes. Je suis consciente moi-même d’avoir bien souvent des attentes un peu trop hautes au sujet de ma vie et de moi-même. Néanmoins, la déception fait partie de la vie. Vous serez déçu(e)s. Vous décevrez les autres. Parfois, vous n’arriverez pas à faire aussi bien que vous le voudriez. Parfois, les choses n’iront pas dans la direction que vous souhaitez. Et bien souvent, vous ferez de votre mieux et ne réussirez pas du premier coup. Et vous savez quoi ? Ce n’est pas grave. Ce n’est pas grave si vous n’y arrivez pas du premier coup. Ce n’est pas grave si vous n’avez pas agi comme vous le vouliez. Ce n’est pas grave d’avoir dit quelque chose de stupide. Tout ira bien. C’est la vie. Les choses évolueront. Vous ne pouvez pas tout contrôler. Vous ne pouvez pas non plus être parfaits. Vous êtes assez bien. Tant que vous faîtes de votre mieux, tout ira pour le mieux.
≈ CENTRER VOTRE ATTENTION SUR LE POSITIF.
Se concentrer sur le bon au lieu du mauvais peut être une bonne chose. Vous passez une mauvaise journée, c’est bien cela ? Eh bien, repensez y et chercher la chose (cela peut être quelque chose de minuscule/insignifiant au premier abord) qui pourra vous réchauffer le cÅ“ur. Cela pourrait bien être le câlin que vous avait reçu avant de partir, votre thé ou café du matin, le compliment que vous avez reçu un peu plus tôt dans la journée, le temps, un sourire, un mot gentil, une possibilité, une simple idée ou une pensée réconfortante… Pratiquement n’importe quoi. Et puis le tour est joué. Tout n’est pas perdu finalement, n’est-ce pas ?
≈ OCCUPEZ VOUS.
Ou vous pourriez très bien utiliser l’astuce la plus vielle du monde : s’occuper l’esprit. L’un des meilleurs moyens pour arrêter de penser est d’être débordé(e). Se laisser absorber dans une activité évite de se concentrer sur ce qui nous déroute. Vous pouvez profiter de ce moment là pour faire n’importe quoi. Cuisiner, lire, ranger, parler à ces membres de votre famille auxquels vous n’avez pas parlé depuis longtemps ou encore travailler sur un projet, tout peut facilement devenir une distraction. Mes préférés sont cuisiner ou encore reporter mon attention sur quelqu’un d’autre.
≈ PRÉTENDRE QUE TOUT VA BIEN.
J’ai déjà remarqué cette facilité que les autres ont à le faire. Ils prétendent que tout va bien, qu’ils n’ont pas une once de doute. Ils pourraient passer des heures à vous convaincre qu’il n’y a pas de problèmes et qu’ils ne s’inquiètent jamais. Peut-être cherchent-ils quelque part à s’en persuader eux-aussi… Dans tous les cas, ils n’ont pas tort. Vous pouvez très certainement surmonter ce qui vous déroute. Tout ce qu’il vous suffit de faire est de le réaliser. Nous savons tous que de nos jours, la confiance en soi est capitale.
≈ ENTOUREZ VOUS D'INFLUENCES POSITIVES.
Pour finir, la vie est bien trop courte pour être passée avec des personnes qui vous tirent vers le bas… Je suis quelqu’un d’indépendant mais je suis là pour mes amis. Je n’en ai probablement pas beaucoup mais ils sont absolument fantastiques. En grandissant, on comprend rapidement que l’amitié est une notion indénombrable. Elle ne se résume pas à un nombre d’années ou d’amis. Mes amis sont la meilleure chose qui me soit arrivée. Ils sont la raison pour laquelle je souris et ne me sens pas seule tous les jours. Je n’apprécie pas les gens faux et les promesses en l’air. Je déteste les mots vides et les plans qui n’aboutissent jamais. Je les méprise. Je n’attache aucune importance aux mots et ne m’arrête que sur les actions. Et si quelqu’un vous fait vous sentir tout petit et douter de votre amitié, ce n’est probablement pas votre ami. Quelqu’un qui veut être là pour vous fera un effort. Vous pourrez compter sur eux. Vous n’aurez pas à mesurer vos mots et à surveiller vos gestes. Ils ne vous jugeront pas. Ils vous soutiendront et seront capables de vous dire les choses en face. Ils vous comprendront. Ils vous soutiendront contre toutes attentes. Vous ferez tous les deux des efforts et tiendraient l’un à l’autre. Aucune relation ne devrait être à sens unique. C’est frustrant et dépitant. Cela ne fait que créer des problèmes supplémentaires. Nous devons tous nous soutenir. « L'amitié ne rend pas le malheur plus léger, mais en se faisant présence et dévouement, elle permet d'en partager le poids, et ouvre les portes de l'apaisement. »
Hello, my beautiful birds! What have you been up to? It's been so long... Saying my absence was only due to lack of time would be lying. I've been struggling. Struggling with what to write and if I should keep writing on here. I feel like all of this is useless. However, I sort of miss having a place where I could just "speak my mind". I'm working on new contents and new directions for this blog. I would also like to change the design of serenbird but I can't find anything that would suit me... I'll keep you posted and thanks for reading ♥
Hello, my beautiful birds! Quoi de neuf? Cela fait bien trop longtemps. Ce serait mentir que de vous dire que mon absence est due exclusivement à un manque de temps. Je me questionne sur le fait de continuer ou non ce blog. J'ai du mal à trouver le temps d'écrire et l'envie d'écrire. J'ai l'impression que tout ceci est inutile. Cependant, écrire sur ce blog me manque. J'y ai trouvé "ma voix", un moyen d'exprimer ce qui me traverse l'esprit. Je réfléchis à des nouvelles idées d'articles et aux directions que je compte prendre. J'aimerais également changer de design mais je ne trouve rien qui me corresponde. Je vous remercie de continuer à me lire et je vous tiendrais au courant ♥
Hello my wonderful readers ♥♥ I'm here today for 2 reasons. First of all, it's time for my usual 'quote of the week'. I hope you enjoy this quote, as always it reflects my current mood or/and witty words that deserve to be shared with you. I'm currently moving out to a new city and a new flat. I'm bit stressed out. This whole thing is a bit scary. I didn't plan it to happen but well, here we are! So anyway, this is what you missed and why I have not being blogging a lot lately. Thanks again for caring and being so amazing ♥ You're great and one of a kind. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I love everyone of you. Take care and I'll see you soon x
PS: the picture is mine. It's my parents' little dog. He is an hyperactive and sensitive puppy! Isn't he cute?
“ Letting there be room for not knowing is the most important thing of all. When there's a big disappointment, we don't know if that's the end of the story. It may just be the beginning of a great adventure. Life is like that. We don't know anything. We call something bad; we call it good. But really we just don't know. ”
― Pema Chödrön, When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
― Pema Chödrön, When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
There are two types of waiting. There’s the the waiting you do for something you know is coming, sooner or later—like waiting for the 6:28 train, or the school bus, or a party where a certain handsome boy might be. And then there’s the waiting for something you don’t know is coming. You don’t even know what it is exactly, but you’re hoping for it. You’re imagining it and living your life for it. That’s the kind of waiting that makes a fist in your heart.
— Martine Murray, How To Make a Bird
I have decided to be a bit more optimistic. I had my hopes up and I let faillure bring me down. I am not a quitter or like they'd say on the tv show SCANDAL : ' ARE WE GLADITORS OR ARE WE BITCHES ? ' Well, I'm a gladiator. I don't give up easily. I needed to remind myself of it I guess. I am not doing very great in my university course at the moment but I am not giving up either. My intership in a primary school is almost over. It has been quite enlightening. Like probably almost everyone in their 20s I am struggling to find my path. Knowing what you want to do with the rest of your life is not an easy task. Anyway, I figured I would share with you what makes me happy on a daily basis. What make your life brighter?
Seeing people change is not what hurts ;
what hurts is remembering how they used to be.
what hurts is remembering how they used to be.
So yes, lately I've been fighting this huge feeling in my guts. Awful and sad feeling that I could not shut off. The one that kept warning me that things will never be the same. Everything is changing in my life right now. A lot is going on at the same time and it's hard for me to deal with it. I've so many things to deal with. I've been very focused and reflecting a lot on life and everyone that is in my life right now. I can't help but notice that a lot has changed. I've changed. They have changed. And somehow we are not the same and we've drifted away. I don't enjoy all the things I did. I've grown bitter lately. I know that I shouldn't. I'm lucky. Luckier than most people. I have a part-time job, my studies, a family and a home. I kind of lost my good spirit during this holiday season. The Christmas break is always a tough one for me. But I'm working on getting my spirit back. Getting everything back on track. So I'll see you soon, okay ? Don't give up on me just yet.
Change can be good they say. They also say that not everyone is meant to stay in your life. I guess they're right. It's just hard to accept. To let go is not as easy as it sounds. Especially when you've so many good memories with a person. I've learnt that good decisions are never the easiest. So no matter how much it hurts I will do what I have to do.
Change can be good they say. They also say that not everyone is meant to stay in your life. I guess they're right. It's just hard to accept. To let go is not as easy as it sounds. Especially when you've so many good memories with a person. I've learnt that good decisions are never the easiest. So no matter how much it hurts I will do what I have to do.
Do you ever just take a moment ? Don't you ever just want to press "pause" on things ? Take a second, a minute and just look around you.
Hello everyone! ♡
I hope you are still here. First, I'd like to apologize for my little break. I hope you've not lost hope about Serenbird. I really enjoy blogging and speaking my mind. I have been thinking a lot while I was gone. I'm not very sure I'll have time to blog a lot this year. I have a lot of things planned. Even if it's not very wise, I think I'm going to keep blogging - except it won't be as regular as it was this summer. I will try posting one or two blogs a week. I can't promise you anything but I'll do my best. I hope there are still people out there that will want to read and join me.
I hope you are still here. First, I'd like to apologize for my little break. I hope you've not lost hope about Serenbird. I really enjoy blogging and speaking my mind. I have been thinking a lot while I was gone. I'm not very sure I'll have time to blog a lot this year. I have a lot of things planned. Even if it's not very wise, I think I'm going to keep blogging - except it won't be as regular as it was this summer. I will try posting one or two blogs a week. I can't promise you anything but I'll do my best. I hope there are still people out there that will want to read and join me.
I'm about to do something drastic. Serenbird is going to know a short break. I need to take time to see if this is really working for me. I have a lot of things to do and think about. I'm not sure Serenbird is still one of them. I really love my blog and I enjoyed spending time building it and making it what it is today. I think that I just need to take a minute - a couple of days or weeks - and try to figure things out. I think I just need time. I hope you'll understand and accept my sincere appologies.
A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.
~ Herm Albright
~ Herm Albright
I feel like in this world there is too much negativity. I feel like the world will tell you all the things you did wrong. It will remind you of how much you've lost. It will never tell you how good you've been, how much you've changed and how important you're.
So I want to let you know that YOU ARE IMPORTANT for me. YOU MATTER TO ME.
So I want to let you know that YOU ARE IMPORTANT for me. YOU MATTER TO ME.
This too shall pass.
As you know, 2013 was not a good year for me. I decided that from now on, I will try my best at being positive. I focus on the goood things in my life and how blessed I am for having the best people in my life right now.
“If you don't get everything you want, think of the things you don't get that you don't want.”
26 April 2014
~ And one day, they will say “Serenbird was there. ” ~
“I want to be the kind of person that kind people like and want to be like.”
― Jarod Kintz, At even one penny, this book would be overpriced. In fact, free is too expensive, because you'd still waste time by reading it.
― Jarod Kintz, At even one penny, this book would be overpriced. In fact, free is too expensive, because you'd still waste time by reading it.
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